It's official!

So Monday was my official date of my divorce. A friend once told me, "you never forget you're first. First kiss, first xxx, first divorce!" I honestly wish we could have parted ways still being friends, but there's just too much of a difference between us. I find this funny since we have been with each other for soooooo long. Alas, people change. Or in my case, didn't change.

My mom called me the other day to wish me congratulations on my divorce. I thought that was funny. Then she started to say that I should let her choose my next girlfriend, but stopped short if stating so. She realized that she did choose the ex, lol.

So what's happening, I'm finally moving out. I'm easing my hands of this entire thing. Walking away and never turning back. Today (actually Monday) will end this transitional chapter that I've been stuck in for way to long. My next post will be from my new place, where I can rebuild. To until next time.

Really? Trying to have her cake and east it too!

As I've mentioned previously, I'm dating someone new, and she its dating the guy that was "just a friend." Most nights she doesn't even come home anymore. Well on a recent night, my girlfriend leaves and she happens to come home. And a situation develops.

She's getting 60 of the 60/40 split on the equity if the house, but expects me to pay 50% of the mortgage. What's that all about? I tell get that I'm going to only pay 40% since that us how much I'll be getting when the use is sold...she flips. She  saying that it isn't fair. That I'm home more often than she is and I bring my girlfriend over etc. Hey, I never told her not to come home. I never told her to spend nights at his house. It's get choice not to come home. Right?

She goes on to talk about how I'm immature and a bastard, and asked when I'm going to grow up. I don't get this whole thing. She then starts to bring up things from the past about how debts aren't getting paid that were in her name before we were married, and how unfair it is that she is paying for them, and that debts were paid when we were married, etc, again...I'm confused. Lost again. Everyone I deal with her, she makes new feel like I'm this bad guy for standing top for myself.

I really don't understand her. Does she really expect me to just give her everything? Is that wheawhat I'm suppose to do?

Being Spiteful

So, I find out a few days ago that the soon-to-be-ex has finally gotten around to blocking me from her wall on FB, when this happened I wasn't sure, but I do know that it happened after I saw a picture of her and her new man (the one that she cheat on me with) on a picture that a mutual friend commented on.

After I saw this, I knew that she still has a thing for this guy, not that it matters, but it's something that she is finally willing to make semi-public knowledge. Now I don't want to say that I'm trying to be spiteful, but WTF! Our divorce isn't even final yet, but she wants to post up pictures of this creep? Well, doesn't matter, I've deleted her as a friend. (hat's not spiteful right?) While I was at it, I deleted a couple of her friends as well that have since blocked me from their info, people that never even asked me what was going on, or how I was, just a complete break from communicating with me, oh well.

Not sure how do deal with everything, but hey, we play the cards we're dealt, and we make the best of it. Found out where the creep's new job is...thinking of making a phone call, but whatever...I don't think I can be that mean/spiteful. Besides, I have other things to think about now.

Must all good things come to an end?

The plan was to go with a friend and his family to disney, along with my separated wife. If you didn't caught the last post, let me recap with a really short version. She invited HIM to Disney with us last night. I was very uneasy with that. I told her that last night, but we both were so tired, it didn't register with her. It did this morning however when the told her the same thing. Then she realized what she did.

Ok, back on topic. My friend calls us after 2 to let us know that he won't be able to come, so it turns out that its just going to be the two of us. It was very nice, and I had a good time. We watch a show, rode a couple of rides and had an All-You-Can-Eat BBQ for dinner. We got to talk, and to be honest, just have a pleasant time in each others company.

As the night came to an end though, I started getting sad. I was remembering all the great times we had there, running around trying to get on as many rides as possible, to the days after we got annual passes and just took it to a more leisurely pace when we visit. This trip just brought back all these memories. It was kind of painful.

Today could be classified as a good day for me, but alas, all good things come to an end, and the end is now here. We're back at home now, and we have to spend our nights apart. Getting back to our separatings lives.